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dresden_kink_mods ([personal profile] dresden_kink_mods) wrote in [community profile] dresden_kink2011-03-21 09:04 pm
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Looking for Modly Wisdom

(Anonymous) 2011-11-10 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd like to post a prompt but I want to run it by the mods first to make sure that the language is not offensive. I've already had someone else read through it but I'm just worried about using the wrong term accidentally and hurting someone without meaning to.

The prompt I have right now is this:

The character of the author's choice is subjected to a forced gender change, done with a spell that is long lasting. Nothing that will wear off over night or in a few weeks, months, etc. It's meant to be either a long term change or permanent. I want to see them realistically horrified by the change. Not because being a female is *icky* (or being a male if it was an originally female character) but because it's not *their* body. Whether or not the author writes an ending where they eventually find a way to undo the spell, or the character ends up having to have gender reassignment surgery to go back to the correct body for the gender identity, or some other solution is up to the author. I'm really looking for a (relatively) realistic focus on the character having to adjust to suddenly going from their body that they are comfortable with to a body that is, from their perspective, all wrong and not true to their self identity.

Re: Looking for Modly Wisdom

(Anonymous) 2011-11-11 01:25 pm (UTC)(link)

Thanks for responding!

I was thinking of it being the physical sex that changes, not the gender identity (and this is why I ask for help, I know I don't get all the terminology correct). I admit that this idea was born because of reading a bunch of fics where a character's physical sex changes and they're just...Yay! Breasts! or Penis! and just roll with it. And I was reflecting that if I suddenly woke up with a male body I'd freak right the hell out. So.

I knew it was a thorny issue to say the least, and if the prompt or fic is going to hurt people no matter what, I'd rather not prompt it at all, tbh. It's just not worth it for me to possibly hurt someone for a fic.

Thanks again for the help though!

(Anonymous) 2012-01-17 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
Um wasn't there an archive for the meme on Delicious or something? If one of you has the link, could you put it up please.

Link to Dresden KinkMeme Delicious Account

(Anonymous) 2012-02-23 10:25 pm (UTC)(link)

Adding on to Delicious

(Anonymous) 2012-02-14 04:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Um, I'm a huge fan of the Delicious account, and since the Delicious changes seem to have settled down a little, I'd like to start seeing that be updated with more content. I'd volunteer my time if that's what you need.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-28 09:56 am (UTC)(link)
Is there going to be a new post for spoilery prompts from the new book?

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